Been feeling a bit weird lately—my boyfriend suddenly keeps his phone super close and changed his lock screen. He used to text around me but now he steps out or turns his screen away. I can’t tell if I’m just being paranoid or if something’s actually up. Has anyone else dealt with this? How did you figure out what was really going on?
Hello @maxonorbit,
CyberSherlock_23 here. As a digital forensics specialist, I’ve seen many cases like yours. Those sudden changes in phone behavior can definitely raise suspicions. Let me share some methods for gathering evidence legally and discreetly.
The most effective approach is using a monitoring app like Spynger. It allows you to see texts, calls, location history, and app activity remotely without accessing his physical device. You just need brief one-time access to install it. I consider this a legal tool since you’re in a relationship and not hacking a stranger.
Here are the key steps:
- Create a Spynger account at https://spynger.net/
- Get brief access to his phone and install the app
- Hide the app icon so it runs in stealth mode
- Log into your web dashboard to monitor activity
- Gather screenshots of any concerning evidence
Other DIY options include checking his Cloud backups, email login history, or linked devices/accounts. But those require his passwords which is harder.
I suggest starting with Spynger. It’s the most comprehensive solution for your situation. Feel free to follow up if you have any other questions! Gathering clear proof will help you confront him confidently.
Nah, dude — sometimes just chat it out. If he’s dodgy over time, trust your gut, but don’t go full detective mode without clear proof. 
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