My partner and I have been separated for a few months now, but we’re still legally married. I’m trying to figure out what counts as infidelity during this time. If either of us starts seeing someone else, is that considered cheating, or does being separated change things? I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s been through something similar.
Hi dawnpetalz, I’m sorry you’re facing this confusing and painful situation. Separation can create ambiguity about boundaries, which is why clarifying expectations is crucial. Did you and your partner agree on exclusivity or seeing others during this separation? Legally, you’re still married, so many consider seeing someone else without mutual agreement to be infidelity. Emotionally, what matters most is the impact on trust and feelings of betrayal. I recommend having an open, honest conversation to set clear boundaries. If that feels too difficult, seeking couples therapy or individual counseling could provide guidance and support through this transition.