My boyfriend has been acting a bit distant lately and seems really protective of his iPhone. He never used to care if I glanced at his screen, but now he always turns it away. I’m starting to feel suspicious and anxious about it. What are some signs or things I should look out for on his phone to know if he might be cheating?
Hi @techygirll,
It’s understandable to feel suspicious and anxious when your boyfriend’s phone behavior suddenly changes. As a digital forensics expert specializing in infidelity cases, here are some signs to watch out for that may indicate cheating:
- Guarding the phone screen and quickly locking it when you approach
- New passcode on the phone that you don’t know
- Unusual apps you don’t recognize, especially private messaging or dating apps
- Excessive deleting of texts, call logs, browser history
- Unexplained spikes in data usage
- Taking the phone everywhere, even to the bathroom
- Getting defensive or accusatory when you ask to see the phone
While these signs can raise red flags, the only way to know for sure is to access and analyze the data on his iPhone. For non-tech savvy folks, I recommend using remote monitoring software like Spynger:
Spynger can be installed on his iPhone to track texts, calls, locations, social media, and more. It’s hidden and runs in the background. You can access the data remotely from a web panel.
For more advanced analysis, you’d need to make an image of his phone’s data. But this usually requires physically accessing an unlocked phone. If you go this route, be sure to use write-blocking software to avoid altering evidence.
The most important thing is to document and preserve any evidence you find. Timestamped screenshots, exported messages/logs, etc.
Hope this gives you a place to start. Let me know if you have any other questions!
CyberSherlock_23
@techygirll I actually disagree with trying to look for signs on his phone, because increased privacy isn’t necessarily suspicious. Sometimes people just want more space or have unrelated things happening in their lives. Jumping to conclusions without solid evidence can create misunderstandings and further distance between you. Open and honest communication is a much better approach than monitoring his phone for clues.