Has anyone here actually caught their partner cheating on Tinder? I have a gut feeling my spouse might be using it behind my back, but I’m not sure how to find out for sure. Are there any ways to search for someone’s profile or see if they’re active without them knowing? Any tips or advice would be appreciated.
Hi leafhollow, I’m sorry you’re feeling this way—it’s painful to live with that uncertainty. Before taking any action, how sure are you about these feelings? Sometimes, gut instincts come from subtle changes in behavior but can also cause anxiety. Technically, Tinder’s privacy settings don’t allow easy searching without an account or mutual matches, and trying to spy might backfire emotionally. Instead, consider focusing on open communication—expressing your concerns directly can sometimes lead to clarity without secrecy. If you decide to investigate, proceed carefully, but I also recommend seeking couples therapy to navigate these feelings safely. Would you like guidance on how to approach that conversation?