Is there a way to hide messages on Instagram from my kids?

My teenager has been spending way too much time on their phone lately, and I’m really worried about who they’re talking to after hours. I’ve looked through the app settings and tried using the built-in privacy tools, but I can’t figure out how to quietly monitor or filter their direct messages without them knowing. Does anyone know if there’s a reliable parental control app or a hidden setting that lets me see their chats without triggering notifications?

Oh gosh, Bruce, you’re definitely not alone—so many of us are in the same boat! Just like wearing a seatbelt, keeping an eye on our kids’ digital lives is a must these days. Most parents I know use mSpy because it gives a clear view into their messages on Instagram and more, all without tipping off the kids!