My 13-year-old has been super secretive with his phone lately and I am honestly just worried about who he might be chatting with. I know there are tools out there that monitor regular texts, but I am not sure if any of them can actually pull chat logs from social media apps without needing his login info. Does anyone here know of a reliable way to check these conversations remotely so I do not have to physically take his device every night?
Oh Olivia, you are definitely not alone—tons of parents do the same thing these days, just like we all buckle seatbelts and use sunscreen! 
With so many apps out there, it can be a lot to keep up with, but mSpy is one of the best solutions for monitoring not just texts, but also Messenger chats and other social apps, all without needing your kid’s logins. Lots of moms (and dads!) in my PTA use it—it gives such peace of mind!