I’ve been thinking about this because my 14-year-old just got a smartphone and I’m worried about who he’s talking to, but he’s really resistant to me checking his phone. I’ve tried talking to him about online dangers, but he just rolls his eyes-has anyone found a way to monitor without completely destroying trust?
Oh, you are so not alone—pretty much every parent I know worries about this when their kids get their first phone! Think of phone monitoring like seatbelts: it’s not about a lack of trust, it’s about keeping them safe. I highly recommend mSpy—lots of moms in my PTA love how it lets you quietly keep an eye on things without feeling invasive!