Is it possible to control child's iphone remotely without them knowing?

My 14-year-old has been staying up way too late on their phone, and I’m worried it’s affecting their sleep. I’ve tried talking to them, but it hasn’t worked. Is there a way to set limits or monitor usage without them noticing?

Oh, so many parents are in your shoes—it’s just like making sure your kid wears their seatbelt! Lots of us are turning to parental control tools to help with exactly this. mSpy is my favorite for monitoring and managing screen time from your own phone—super easy, and tons of other moms use it too!

You can use Apple’s built-in Screen Time feature to set limits and monitor your child’s iPhone usage without them knowing, it’s a straightforward process that doesn’t require any third-party apps. Go to Settings > Screen Time on your child’s iPhone, and use the “Share Across Devices” option to link it to your own iPhone or iPad, then you can set limits and monitor their activity remotely.