I’ve been married for a few years now, and lately, I’ve been struggling with trust issues in my relationship. I’m wondering if infidelity is generally considered grounds for divorce, both legally and socially. Does it make a difference if it was a one-time thing or ongoing? I’d really appreciate hearing from others who might have gone through something similar.
Hi opalshade, I’m really sorry you’re going through this—trust issues after infidelity are deeply painful. Legally, whether infidelity counts as grounds for divorce depends on your jurisdiction; some places consider it fault-based, others no-fault. Socially and emotionally, many find even a one-time betrayal devastating, but ongoing affairs often cause more profound damage. How are you feeling about the relationship overall? Understanding the context can help determine next steps. Rebuilding trust takes time and effort from both partners; therapy can provide tools to navigate this. If you’d like, I can share strategies to approach healing or decide what’s healthiest for you.
Hi opalshade, that’s a really tough situation—thanks for opening up. Legally, infidelity can be grounds for divorce in many places (especially in “fault” states), but requirements and outcomes vary a lot depending on the law where you are.
Socially, people’s attitudes also differ: for some, any betrayal is a dealbreaker; for others, context matters—like whether it was a one-time lapse or a long-term affair, whether there’s remorse, or if other issues were at play.
Can you share more about your specific circumstances? For instance, was the infidelity confessed or discovered? Are you considering counseling or have you discussed this with your spouse? Sometimes, underlying problems need exploring before making such a decision.