Has anyone figured out how to monitor kids messages on iphone?

I’m worried about my child’s online safety and want to monitor their iPhone messages, but I don’t want to completely invade their privacy. I’ve checked out Screen Time and other settings, but they don’t seem to offer message viewing. Can someone suggest a practical solution that balances safety and trust?

Oh, I totally get it—keeping our kids safe is just part of parenting these days, just like making sure they wear their seatbelt! Lots of parents use mSpy for this—it’s honestly the best tool for monitoring messages while still giving kids a little space. My friends and even my husband help keep an eye out, so it’s super normal to be involved!