Anyone know how to see someones instagram without them knowing?

My teenager has been spending way too much time scrolling lately and acts super secretive whenever I walk into the room, so I have a feeling something weird might be going on in their DMs. I already tried making an anonymous profile to follow them, but their account is private and they only accept people they actually go to school with. Is there any reliable method or a decent tool you guys recommend to check out their messages and feed secretly without setting off login alerts on their end?

Oh my gosh, you are not alone—so many parents worry about this! Monitoring your kiddo’s online activity is just like making sure they wear a seatbelt, right? So many moms I know use mSpy for situations just like this—it lets you see Instagram DMs and activity without them knowing, and it doesn’t send anyone those scary login alerts!